Community Guidelines

Community Guidelines
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One of the best things about sharing work online is being able to engage with the community that forms around it. That's you!

The comments section on this site is a space for you to chat with me and with other like minded members. You can share knowledge and experiences, and let me know what content you enjoyed the most.

To help keep the community constructive and fun, here are a few best practices to keep in mind. Thanks for your help & support. ❤️

Respect each other.

This should be a comfortable and inviting community for everyone, so it's expected that all members be civil and respectful in their interactions.

Like any online community, we're a group of people with a wide range of experiences and beliefs, many of which may differ from your own. Consider this a gift — interesting and challenging perspectives can open doors you didn't even know existed.

Share your real name and expertise.

When you publish your first comment on this site, you'll be prompted to complete a member profile, with your name and expertise. You can also update this any time.

Using your real name and sharing your expertise or lived experience helps give context to valuable discussions. Sharing these extra details alongside your comments shows the perspective from which you are joining the conversation.

Stay on topic, and share your sources.

A new post might prompt a dozen different types of responses, from a reader sharing a personal story to a newcomer asking for clarification. In every instance, do your best to stay on topic, support your replies with additional context or sources where appropriate, and focus on discussing the ideas presented. 

  • Link to trustworthy articles, reports, and sources to support your arguments.
  • Only share links to your own content when it directly adds to the conversation. Please don't spam. Nobody likes spam. Nobody. Membership could be terminated if this becomes an issue.

If you've contributed to the conversation and someone else replies to your thread, you'll be notified by email. You can choose to switch these emails off in your member account settings, under email preferences. You can also decide whether to reply or not. You have the freedom here to express your ideas and opinions, and people are free to respond to and/or disagree with you. Your right to be heard is not a right to be taken seriously. The great thing about the internet is we can just scroll past and ignore whatever doesn’t serve us.

Keep it constructive and kind.

Constructive contributions are the best kind. If you have knowledge that places the topic of the post in a new light, or if you have feedback about the subject matter — it's best shared in a way that helps everyone feel like this is a community where new ideas are respected and valued, even if we don’t agree with them. There is always benefit to understanding the other side of the story. Good or Bad. Discernment helps us to learn and grow.

With every comment you make, you add to the dialogue. Many people may read your words and use them to shape their ideas and feelings about a topic, event, or person. Employ that influence wisely. Move the collective conversation forward, and invite others to follow your lead.

Flag inappropriate interactions.

As a member, you can help maintain our community by reporting any behaviour that goes against these guidelines.

If you see verbal abuse in the comments section, flag it. All you need to do is click the three dots next to the inappropriate comment, and then click Report comment. These reports are taken seriously, and there's a zero tolerance policy for abusive behaviour. Difference in opinions is not considered hate or abuse.

Be the you online that you are in-person.

Most people are kind and well-intentioned humans. Although it may seem like the opposite is true on the internet at times, the reality is that people tend to follow the majority. You can help keep the tone of this community friendly and fun if you lead the way with insightful, humane language. 

Free speech is important. Freedom of opinion gives anyone the right to hold a belief without interference, restriction or exception. Freedom of expression is a bit more complicated. I welcome all opinions and comments here provided they do not contain slander or violence. It’s ok to have a different opinion, it’s not ok to be a mean human being.

That’s it! If you’ve scrolled this far, thank you for being a valued member, and see you in the comments!